Meli's back

[barbu1977]

Too bad meli,

Probably not an happy reason to be back, but we are happy to see you!

[Socrates]

quote:Originally posted by Melifluous

So anyways from 1st March I'm moving into my new flat and trying to work out what the fuck to do with my life....

Any ideas?

Don't get back to Civ (if you had ever stopped it), is my first thought.

Truely sorry for your situation, Steve. Hope you'll manage it well with her, and also regarding what you told us was the most important thing in your life... Anyway, you keep your part of real British humour here, that's a good thing, is what I want to believe.

[romeothemonk]

That is a kick in privates. I'm sorry

From a legal point of view, don't let her take all your stuff and break your heart (If you can help it)

On the positive side of things, a guy with your knowledge, skill sets, and wry humor can do quite a bit. Just think of it as a fresh chance to do whatever it is you always wanted. Think back to when you were growing up, and try and remember what you wanted to do, then do it. I doubt it was sit around and drink, but you are a different kind of guy. I am reasonably sure that without meeting you in person that your goal in life was not to sit around by yourself and be depressed. So, in typical fashion, I wish the best for you, will pray for you, and encourage you to go do that which you always wanted to.

[grahamiam]

quote:Originally posted by Melifluous
Any ideas?

Sorry to read this.

Here's my bad idea -> www.sugardaddie.com Just pretend you're a millionaire for a few weeks and go trolling for some hot, shallow chicks. Or, become a gigalo

[Markstar]

So sorry to hear about your situation. Keep your head up!

[Beorn]

quote:Originally posted by Melifluous

The options are...

nil...

I think this is the crucial part. Like Romeo said, think of the things you've always wanted to do but ended up skipping. You've grown and your interests have probably changed, but your skills and experience also have improved. Think of who you are now, what you've done, what you can do and put that together on a paper.

Ideas about where to go from there shouldn't be too hard to find after that, you should also write those down. It's much easier to re-learn to live after something awful when you have something else to do.

And whatever you like doing, some exercise never hurts. Run, swim, bike, get your ass off the couch.

[sz_matyas]

Wow, that sucks nothing else to say really.

Other people are giving better advice than I ever could, though beorn did have some good advice on the exercise (among all the other good advice by others). This is the crucial time and the decisions made are going to be important so don't blow it just because you're bummed out.

[akots]

Well, I don't know your details but what it seems now will not remain that way after some time. And whatever happens, happens for the good at least on some part of it. You might not be able to see it but there is plus to every minus especially with regards to women.

What about kids?

[Lt. Killer M]

wow.








I am very sorry to hear that, Steve! But you have not mentioned the (in my eyes) most important part: what about the next generation? Will she give you trouble about seeing him?

[Aggie]

Wow, that sucks Meli.......

What to say????

This sucks man...