Nah, we've spoken in mesenger before I read your post, all it clear now
We know a bit more about each other's lands and game strategy. She wanted me to catch up in techs as a show of goodwill, what she didn't know is that my score is low because I'm building settlers and haven't gotten to increasing my production and that sort of stuff (one worker still....) and not so because techs. But don't worry, we wouldn't blame you for anything