Well the internetgods have shown mercy and I'm reconnected again. No thanks to KPN however. After telling me to return to factory settings they discovered my modem type didnt include a setup wizard in the software. Ofc they didnt know what to do next, so I was screwed. They offered to send me a new modem. Very nice, but no internet for a week isnt really an option. Dug out the old installation CD and fixed the crap myself. Lesson learned: never call a KPN helpdesk.
Anyways, Beam can you PM me details how to connect and such. Some instructions about your strategy also handy. Will read up on your spoiler now