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Lt. Killer M
25-11-2003, 23:45
I just got an email from a friend who works for an internet provider and web designer. They are making sites for a porn site atm.

He was setting up all the stuff and stumbled across pictures that pretty clearly show my ex GF. The source of the pics is 'contributed pics' on another site; he was not admin for that but a colleague. That guy confirmed his suspicious about the email address (had the name of her now-BF in it).......

Now, she is about to marry him and have kids (or is married), and if she hasn't changed 100% she will definately NOT want her pics on the ent - and not want a relationship with someone who posts nude shots of her on the net without consent.


Now what???????????


edit: spelling


edit: the pics are 'holiday shots' - but taken in private settings, not at the beach or so.
WildFire
26-11-2003, 01:02
lol, and just as you were telling me on icq. Just can't keep quiet eh?
Lt. Killer M
26-11-2003, 01:15
I do not know what to do!

ben gave some good advice! thanx!
Skyfish
26-11-2003, 07:02
Wow, thats heavy shit!

Its more a question of "tell her or Not tell her"...Will think a bout it more...
Shabbaman
26-11-2003, 09:14
Weird shit [shabba]
anarres
26-11-2003, 10:11
If you think these pics are going on the internet without her knowledge then I would definitely tell her.

But then that's just me - I know many people who would never dream of interfering...
Skyfish
26-11-2003, 11:01
I would also defintiely tell her ! No excuse, she's got to knwo even if she gets mad at you (for whatever reason) !
Kingreno
26-11-2003, 11:08
Tell her. period. As if something like that can remain a secret for her forever. She'd be more hurt if she finds out in time that a lot of people around her "knew"...
Lt. Killer M
26-11-2003, 11:45
OK, thanx, you all pretty much say what I think.

now I must weaselr her address out of her parents without arounding suspicion that somehting is wrong
ProPain
26-11-2003, 11:50
I'd say tell her but it's hard to decide without having seen the pics. Maybe you can post em here so we can all judge for ourselves if it's necessary for you to tell her.



Seriously: Tell her, just imagine what it would be like to have your nude pic on the net without your consent.
Shabbaman
26-11-2003, 11:57
lol @ pp

Nude pictures of killer on the net? *shiver* I'd cancel my internet subscription right away ;)
Lt. Killer M
26-11-2003, 11:58
quote:Originally posted by Shabbaman

lol @ pp

Nude pictures of killer on the net? *shiver* I'd cancel my internet subscription right away ;)


well, she looks good :p and the pics are obviously not with me....
Sir Eric
26-11-2003, 12:44
Tell her. This bugger should be prosecuted if they are put up without her consent, and maybe some of the boys can pay him a visit ;)
digger760
26-11-2003, 13:16
it is possible an pretty easy to spoof email addresses (the the email appears from sombody when its not)...you can check by looking a the detailed email header (AFAIK). Maybe she has a jealous admirer....but if it is actually him that is doing it that is terrible...either way she needs to know.
Lt. Killer M
26-11-2003, 13:30
she should recognize the pics - they are not sneak shots.
Melifluous
30-12-2003, 11:14
So what happened here then?

Did it all get sorted out in the end?

Melifluous
col
30-12-2003, 13:08
Copies please ;)
Lt. Killer M
31-12-2003, 15:16
OK, I called, chatted about this and that, she told me how she split from her last guy because he had posted pics of her on the net without her knowledge...

phew!